It wasn’t always like this. I can’t really remember when it wasn’t, but I know for sure we weren’t always like this. She used to be… my unicorn.
You know… unbelievable, crazy special, the girl I thought could never exist. But, as time went on, from one stage of a relationship to the next,
the path that started off so innocent and fun… has taken us to… that. But, like most, we started off as strangers at Stage : Meeting.
You know… unbelievable, crazy special, the girl I thought could never exist. But, as time went on, from one stage of a relationship to the next,
the path that started off so innocent and fun… has taken us to… that. But, like most, we started off as strangers at Stage : Meeting.
We really hit it off that day. I think so at least — I blacked out for a few minutes. But when I woke up, I remembered the feeling like I’ve made a pretty
good impression.
good impression.
All I wanted was to know more about her.
All I wanted to do was hang out with her.
The only person I wanted to talk to was her.
She was the number one priority.
And every time I saw her, butterflies.
She was everything that I thought could be perfect in a girl. And as soon as it felt right ...
All I wanted to do was hang out with her.
The only person I wanted to talk to was her.
She was the number one priority.
And every time I saw her, butterflies.
She was everything that I thought could be perfect in a girl. And as soon as it felt right ...
It was the time when we could finally, fully express our affection to each other, and do all the things we wanted to do as a couple. It was a dream come true.
The girl I wanted to be with so… so badly, was finally mine. But eventually the fire cooled, and both of us simmered down back to normalcy.
By the end of it all, we had a bajillion pictures with each other, knew every detail of our daily lives.
The girl I wanted to be with so… so badly, was finally mine. But eventually the fire cooled, and both of us simmered down back to normalcy.
By the end of it all, we had a bajillion pictures with each other, knew every detail of our daily lives.
Now, being comfortable isn’t necessarily bad. It’s when we could truly be ourselves. But it depends on what you do with that comfort.
Some use it positively continuing to work at their relationship and grow together, but… others allow it to create distance.
Some use it positively continuing to work at their relationship and grow together, but… others allow it to create distance.
Whether it’s taking each other for granted, or people changing over time, the bottom line is… someone stops trying, and feelings aren’t as strong as before.
This could happen over a few months.
This could happen over a few months.
I couldn’t believe it, and I was really disappointed. Somehow, the girl I was so crazy about half year ago, had turned into someone
who just… wasn’t that special anymore. It happened so gradually that I didn’t even see it coming, but there we were, just tolerating each other.
who just… wasn’t that special anymore. It happened so gradually that I didn’t even see it coming, but there we were, just tolerating each other.
Oh gosh, don’t you even ask me about my day!
Arguing is one thing, but feeling dissatisfied and unhappy with the relationship is another. We tried various times, to try and make changes, to fix things…
But like so many couples out there, it wasn’t enough. We became one of those relationships, where it wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great.
And let me tell you: that’s never a good way to describe a relationship.
But like so many couples out there, it wasn’t enough. We became one of those relationships, where it wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great.
And let me tell you: that’s never a good way to describe a relationship.
The effort to try to make things work, just… isn’t worth it anymore.
Problems continue. Arguments don’t get solved. I don’t even really remember what we argued about.
Sad to say — are nearing the end of this stage. What’s next is what happens to everyone at some point, the end of line, the worst stage ever: Breaking up.
Problems continue. Arguments don’t get solved. I don’t even really remember what we argued about.
Sad to say — are nearing the end of this stage. What’s next is what happens to everyone at some point, the end of line, the worst stage ever: Breaking up.
I don’t know when it will happen or how, but I hope we can leave it on good mutual terms if that’s ever truly possible.
I think it’s for the best.
And it is when the two of us will start a new path, one that leads right back to where we started: Strangers. The change will be so drastic and so blunt that
I will probably wanna get back together right away, just to restore what’s normal.
I think it’s for the best.
And it is when the two of us will start a new path, one that leads right back to where we started: Strangers. The change will be so drastic and so blunt that
I will probably wanna get back together right away, just to restore what’s normal.
The distance will grow. Eventually, the two of us will move on, or find someone new.
And even when we both get over the past and try to remain friends, things will never be the same.
And even when we both get over the past and try to remain friends, things will never be the same.
Our lives will continue on in different directions, toward the inevitable end — becoming strangers again. And everything we shared will just become fragments
of memories from so long ago. I’ll question if it even really happened. And all that’ll be left is this: a box of random stuff… from a faded period of time
when… this stranger was the most important person in my life. What a shame.
of memories from so long ago. I’ll question if it even really happened. And all that’ll be left is this: a box of random stuff… from a faded period of time
when… this stranger was the most important person in my life. What a shame.
Well, it’s gonna be one or the other.
What do you think will happen if we don’t… end up together?
Are we gonna hate each other? Do you think we’ll keep in touch?
What do you think will happen if we don’t… end up together?
Are we gonna hate each other? Do you think we’ll keep in touch?
I think… that if life separates us, and we end up in totally different places, I’ll always remember when our path aligned for this period of time,
and I’ll be thankful for that. And I hope that wherever you are, you’ll be thankful, too. I think that’s the best we can wish for.
and I’ll be thankful for that. And I hope that wherever you are, you’ll be thankful, too. I think that’s the best we can wish for.
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